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Nick Young; Kehlani
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1. None of the foolishness I’m writing about is an April Fool’s joke. It’s all based on alleged “facts,” high-key trifling behavior and large doses of sexism. Be alarmed. Be very alarmed.
2. If the filters on your phone have allowed you to avoid these stories, consider yourself blessed. I apologize in advance for bursting your “bubble.”
Earlier this week Kehlani, a 20-year-old singer-songwriter who used to be in a high-profile relationship with NBA player Kyrie Irving, popped up on the Instagram of her ex Jahron Anthony Brathwaite, aka PartyNextDoor. Or, er, part of her did.
Brathwaite posted a picture of Kehlani’s very distinct hand tattoo. The caption read, “After all her shenanigans, still got the R&B singer back in my bed.” Kehlani, who was no longer in a relationship with Irving, was immediately attacked on social media by followers who accused her of cheating on Irving and called her all the gross names women who are accused of cheating are called.
Kehlani was so disturbed by the social media bullying that she reportedly attempted suicide. She posted an image from her hospital bed with an IV in her arm and a caption stating that she did not cheat.
“No, I’m not a cheater … I’m a believer in following your heart and not lying to yourself,” Kehlani wrote, then deleted. Brathwaite, the ex who uploaded the photo that started all this mess, was by her bedside.
Some readers were sympathetic to the singer. Others questioned whether it was just a fake attempt to stop the bullying on her account. Public nuisance and misinformant Chris Brown weighed in for that contingent in an early-morning Twitter rant Wednesday.
“Her DMs got more names then the Declaration of Independence,” wrote Brown, who was recently involved in his own love triangle when he got a woman pregnant while in a high-profile relationship with his now-ex Karrueche Tran. The nerve of this pot addressing this kettle. “There is no attempting suicide,” he ignorantly admonished. “Stop flexing for the [Insta]gram.”
Brown didn’t say a word about Brathwaite, who started the whole fiasco by sharing the photo, possibly without permission. (I mean, if the assumption is that Kehlani was cheating, couldn’t we assume that she wouldn’t give permission for someone to take or post a photo about it?)
Irving, who confirmed that he and Kehlani were not dating when Braithwaite posted the infamous photo, is the only person I’ve seen condemn Braithwaite’s messiness. “I do not justify the picture or what [PartyNextDoor] did to try and spark all of this nonsense that could have been avoided, but me and Kehlani were not dating when the picture came out,” Irving tweeted before erasing his comments.
Irving, an actual human with a heart, added, “It’s unfortunate that [this situation has] received so much attention, but [it’s] become bigger because of a post that was misunderstood. Nothing but love and compassion over this way for [Kehlani] and her family.”
On Wednesday night, an eerily similar, high-profile incident occurred. This time, NBA player Nick Young was “caught out there” when a video confession of him admitting to cheating on his fiancee, “rapper” Iggy Azalea, hit the Internet. The video was secretly recorded by his Lakers teammate rookie D’Angelo Russell, who was swiftly ostracized by the team, according to ESPN.
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